The Power of Connection: Why Authority Is Built on Presence, Not Performance

For decades, authority meant control.
Control of the narrative.
Control of the message.
Control of the room.

But that era is over.

In today’s world, authority is no longer built behind a desk, a script, or a polished delivery. It’s built through connection. The leaders who last, whether in media, business, or influence, are not the loudest voices in the room.

They are the most present.

In a recent conversation with veteran broadcaster Nicea Degering, a powerful truth surfaced: credibility may get you in the door, but connection keeps you there.

Let’s break down why that matters and how to apply it.

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‍Principle 1: Reps Build Skill — Reflection Builds Authority

There’s no substitute for doing the work.

Three decades in broadcasting didn’t create authority because of time served. It created authority because of repetition under pressure.

Live interviews.
On-the-spot pivots.
High-stakes coverage.
Moments of failure.

But here’s the difference:

Reps alone don’t build wisdom.
Reps + reflection do.

When you look back at how you handled situations, whether a difficult client conversation or a public interview, you gain perspective. And perspective creates depth.

Authority grows when experience turns into insight.

Application:
After every presentation, interview, or major meeting, ask:

• What worked?
  
  
• Where did I default to performance instead of presence?
  
  
• What would I do differently today?
  
  

That reflection compounds.

Principle 2: Connection Is the New Credibility

There was a time when broadcasting meant stacking papers, delivering headlines, and signing off with certainty.

That model no longer holds power.

Today, audiences can sense detachment instantly. They know when someone is reciting versus relating.

The shift is clear:
Authority no longer comes from posture.
It comes from proximity.

Connection means:

• Listening beyond your next question.
  
  
• Responding instead of reciting.
  
  
• Being human instead of robotic.
  
  

If you’re building a brand, podcast, or business — remember this:

People don’t stay for information.
They stay for resonance.

Application:
Before your next interview or sales call:

• Drop the script.
  
  
• Know your key points.
  
  
• Stay present enough to pivot.
  
  

Memorized lines create tension. Mastery creates flow.

Principle 3: Know Your Audience — Even If It’s One Person

One of the most powerful reminders from the conversation was simple:

Every message is for someone.

Even if that someone is just one person listening.

Authority isn’t about broadcasting to everyone. It’s about reaching the right one.

When you understand:

• Who you speaking to
  
  
• What they’re struggling with
  
  
• What they need clarity on
  
  

Your communication sharpens.

Instead of asking, “How do I sound?” Ask, “Did this help them?” That shift changes everything.

Principle 4: Passion Creates Longevity

Skill will open doors.

Passion keeps you walking through them.

Early ambition may focus on status:
Getting on TV.
Building the brand.
Landing the interview.

But sustainable authority shifts toward impact:
Whose story needs light?
What conversations need to happen?
Where can influence create positive change?

That’s when influence deepens.

The people who last in any industry are not the most polished. They’re the most invested.

Principle 5: Authority Comes From Becoming, Not Branding

You don’t become an authority by announcing it.

You become one by:

• Showing up consistently.
  
  
• Growing publicly.
  
  
• Learning out loud.
  
  
• Adapting as the landscape shifts.
  
  

From traditional media to social platforms to long-form conversations, one truth remains:

Authentic presence outlasts trends.

The world doesn’t need more polished personalities. It needs grounded leaders.

Action Steps: Building Authority Through Connection

Here’s how you can apply this immediately:

1. Stop memorizing. Start internalizing.
   Know your message deeply enough that you can deliver it naturally.
   
   
2. Practice active listening.
   In your next conversation, focus entirely on the other person’s words before planning your response.
   
   
3. Build emotional awareness.
   Authority today requires empathy. Understand the emotional landscape of your audience.
   
   
4. Say what others avoid saying.
   Growth conversations require courage. Be willing to address the real issues.
   
   
5. Do the reps.
   Record. Speak. Publish. Present. Improve. Repeat.
   
   

Consistency compounds authority.

Conclusion: Performance Fades. Presence Endures.

The old model of influence relied on control.

The new model relies on connection.

If you want to build a lasting brand, whether in media, entrepreneurship, or leadershi,p shift your focus from sounding impressive to being impactful.

Because at the end of the day:

Authority is not built by how well you perform.
It’s built on how deeply you connect.

And the leaders who master that skill don’t just get attention. They earn trust.

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About George

George Wright III is a proven, successful entrepreneur and he knows how to inspire entrepreneurs, companies, and individuals to achieve massive results. With more than 20 years of executive management experience and 25 years of direct marketing and sales experience, George is responsible for starting and building several successful multimillion-dollar companies. He started at a very young age to network and build his experience and knowledge of what it takes to become a driven and well-known entrepreneur. George built a multi-million-dollar seminar business, promoting some of the biggest stars and brands in the world. He has accelerated the success and cash flow in each of his ventures through his network of resources and results driven strategies. George is now dedicated to teaching and sharing his Prosperity Principles and strategies to every driven and passionate entrepreneur he meets. His mission is to empower entrepreneurs globally, to create massive change and LIVE their ultimate destiny.

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About Guest: Nicea DeGering

Nicea DeGering is an Emmy-award winning television anchor, host, and media personality best known for her long-standing role on Good Things Utah, the lifestyle and morning show on ABC4 Utah. She began her broadcast career after graduating with a degree in Broadcast Journalism from Brigham Young University, quickly rising to become the Crime Reporter at ABC4 at age 23 — a rare achievement for such a young journalist.

Over more than 25 years on Utah television, Nicea has covered everything from breaking news like the 2002 Winter Olympics and the search for Elizabeth Smart to lifestyle interviews with high-profile figures and everyday community members alike.

Her work blends journalistic credibility with personable storytelling, making her a trusted voice in both news and entertainment. Beyond television, she is a sought-after event emcee, keynote speaker, and brand spokesperson, known for her engaging presence and ability to connect deeply with audiences.

Nicea has also been recognized as one of Utah’s 40 Over 40 Women to Watch — a testament to her influence and impact in media and community engagement. 

Guest Resources

Official Website: https://www.niceadegering.com

Instagram: niceadegering

LinkedIn: Nicea DeGering