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Episode 715 · Jan 25, 2023

Living with Uncertainty: How Discomfort Drives Success

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George Wright III opens this episode of The Daily Mastermind with a challenge that cuts to the heart of personal growth: what if the uncertainty you've been trying to eliminate is actually the engine of your best life? Drawing on wisdom from his mentor Robert Stuber and hard-won experience running one of the largest education companies in the world, George lays out a practical, mindset-shifting framework for not just tolerating uncertainty, but learning to live comfortably inside it.

If you've ever caught yourself wishing for fewer problems, smoother days, or a more predictable path forward, this episode was built for you.

Why You Can't Outrun Uncertainty

For years, George tried. As CEO of a company with three to four hundred employees running events across the globe, he invested enormous energy into tightening systems, building processes, and creating safety nets designed to eliminate the unpredictable. None of it worked. The uncertainty kept showing up anyway.

The real turning point came when his mentor Robert Stuber reframed the entire question. Instead of asking how to eliminate uncertainty, the better question is how much of it you can comfortably absorb.

The quality of your life will always be in direct proportion to the amount of uncertainty that you can comfortably live with.

That single insight changes everything. Uncertainty is not a problem to be solved. It is a condition of a life well lived, and your capacity to hold it determines how far you can go.

The Trap of Asking for Fewer Problems

There is a subtle but consequential difference between asking for less difficulty and asking for more strength. Most people default to the first without realizing it. They pray for lighter loads, quieter seasons, and smoother roads. But Robert Kiyosaki captured why that instinct works against you:

If you don't fail, you don't succeed.

Failure and problems are not detours around success. They are the route. Every problem you encounter is a chance to build the kind of capability that cannot be faked or borrowed. If you want to operate at levels you have never reached before, you have to face problems you have never faced before. That is not a warning. It is a map.

Problems Are Never Personal, Pervasive, or Permanent

One of Robert Stuber's most useful frameworks breaks down the three distortions we apply to problems when we are in the middle of them.

Personal: You are not being singled out. The meaning you attach to a difficulty is a choice, not a fact. When you stop taking problems personally, you stop fighting a story and start solving an actual situation.

Pervasive: No problem is so total and consuming that there is no way through it. The feeling of being overwhelmed is real, but it is not an accurate read of the situation. Every problem has edges, and edges mean exits.

Permanent: This is the most liberating of the three. Nothing in your life, your business, or your relationships stays fixed. Everything has seasons. Everything has cycles. You may be in winter right now, but the spring will come. The season will pass. The problem will pass.

When you hold all three of these at once, problems lose their power to paralyze you. They become events you move through rather than conditions you are stuck inside.

What Tony Robbins Gets Right About Certainty and Uncertainty

George references Tony Robbins and the six human needs, specifically the pairing of certainty and uncertainty as core drivers of human behavior. Most people feel the pull of certainty more loudly. It feels safer. But the need for uncertainty, for variety and challenge and surprise, is equally wired into you. Suppressing it does not make you more secure. It makes you smaller.

The goal is not to eliminate one need in favor of the other. It is to expand your tolerance for uncertainty until you can move through it with confidence rather than fear.

How Thinking Creates the Reality You Experience

George closes the episode with a line from Shakespeare's Hamlet that lands with precision:

There is nothing either good or bad, but thinking makes it so.

The meaning you assign to the events in your life is not delivered from the outside. You construct it. A setback is only a failure if you decide it is. A period of uncertainty is only chaos if you call it that. When you change the story you tell about what is happening, you change your relationship to it entirely, and that changes what becomes possible next.

Action Steps

  • Audit your ask. When you catch yourself wishing for fewer problems, consciously redirect it: ask instead for more strength, more clarity, or more resilience to handle what is in front of you.
  • Apply the three-part filter. The next time a problem feels crushing, run it through the framework: Is it truly personal? Is it actually pervasive? Is it genuinely permanent? In most cases the answer to all three is no.
  • Build your power statement. Write a short affirmation you can return to when uncertainty surges. George's example: "I have the strength, ability, determination, and resolve to focus on solutions, not problems. I am grateful for the problems in my life because they give me the knowledge, experience, and wisdom to help others create the best versions of themselves."
  • Expand your comfort zone with uncertainty gradually. Take on one situation each week that you would normally avoid because of the uncertainty it carries. Notice that you can handle more than you think.
  • Rewrite the meaning. When something goes wrong, pause before assigning meaning to it. Choose a frame that serves your growth rather than confirms your fear.

Uncertainty is not the enemy of a good life. It is the price of a great one. The more of it you can hold without flinching, the more of life you get to access. It is never too late to start living the life you were meant to live.

READ THE FULL TRANSCRIPT

All right, welcome back to The Daily Mastermind, George Wright III with your daily dose of inspiration, motivation, and education. I hope you're having an amazing week so far. Let me get you started with the quote of the day. It's from Robert Kiyosaki and the quote of the day is, if you don't fail, you don't succeed. If you don't fail, you don't succeed. That's a great quote. I always think of that over the years. I've had Robert Kiyosaki speak for me at a couple of different events that I've done. And I always think of that because I remember his saying where he said, if you really want to be successful, you've got to fail five times faster. And I think that really is the key to success. What he's trying to say in that quote is that if you don't push through failure, if you don't expect failure, you're not going to succeed because failure is that gateway to success. It's that learning curve that you're going to get to success. Now, I want to remind you that The Daily Mastermind is here every day with a small dose, weekdays, to be able to help you create your best life. Really, it's that inspiration, education, motivation, whatever it is that you need. I'm hoping to give you just something, some golden nugget you can take throughout the week. And then we have weekly interviews as well with success thought leaders, experts, you know, individuals in business or whatever it is that can help you as well. And I'll throw in some occasional trainings when it comes to some business topics. but this week I want to remind you that we're focused on prosperity pillar number four, which is surrounding yourself with positive people, and I'm spending a bunch of time really sharing with you one of the keys to success I gained from one of my mentors, Robert Stuber. And one of the keys to success that he talked about was the daily reminders, daily reminders. We've talked about that a little bit. So let me ask you a question. Do you continuously ask for less problems or do you ask for more strength I mean are you asking for less problems or are you asking for more strength You know I remember when I was growing up in fact all through my business career, you know, I was growing, in fact, at one time, one of the largest education companies in the world and we were doing a couple hundred million dollars a year. And that's actually when I met Robert and I was pretty overwhelmed. Most of my life I've been overwhelmed because I've been kind of a high achiever, maybe like you, always taking on more responsibilities than I really wanted to take on. But I remember being really overwhelmed because I had, you know, three, 400 employees. We were running events all over the world. We had our own marketing and travel and all kinds of different things. And, you know, I was constantly looking for a way to avoid problems and situations and find ways to create safety around processes. I was always looking for ways to get rid of the uncertainty and get rid of random things that could happen by tightening down the ship, so to speak, right? But guess what? I never did really figure out how to avoid the problems and the situations and the circumstances, and more importantly, the uncertainty. Avoiding uncertainty is just not something that even if you could do, you really wouldn't be satisfied with. You know, Tony Robbins talks about the fact, you know, in the six human needs, he talks about the need for certainty and the need for uncertainty. But I remember Robert telling me one time, he said, he said, listen up, and I want you to listen to this really carefully. Because I used to do sessions, I paid him quite a bit of money as a mentor to, when I was the CEO of this large company, to give me advice on how to avoid things that I couldn't control and to be able to sort of place control over things that were happening in the business which we just can really do And this is what he said to me He said George the quality of your life will always be in direct proportion to the amount of uncertainty that you can comfortably live with. I want to tell you that again. Think about that for a second. If you're wishing for less problems or you're wishing for things to get lighter, the quality of your life, and I would add your success, is in direct proportion to the amount of uncertainty that you can comfortably live with. Remember, problems are really just ways for you to grow. Situations and circumstances, they're things that you can do to level up. And that's why we always talk about not wanting less problems, but wanting more strength. And if you want to push to levels you've never been to before, you have to experience problems you've never experienced before. That's the bottom line. And so remember a couple of things. He also mentioned, and he went on to tell me, you know, as we, as we spent time together, he says, remember something else, nothing or no problem. And I want you to really think about this. Remember that no problems are entirely personal, pervasive, or permanent, personal, pervasive, or permanent. What does that mean? Well, the bottom line, and think about that for a minute. I want you to really think about it. None of the problems in your life are personal. You know, maybe you think the meaning you're giving them is that they're a tax on you or that you're always having these situations or they continue to come up. But when you adopt the philosophy that nothing's personal, then you can handle it a little bit better. And they're also not pervasive, meaning they're not so overwhelming and consuming that there's no way, there's no way to solve these problems. And also they're not permanent. And this is the one I love the most. No problem in your life is permanent. Everything in life and business and relationships, everything has seasons, everything has cycles. And it's like you hearing lately maybe you in the winter maybe you in the winter but make no mistake the springtime will come Make no mistake that the seasons will pass and then problems will pass And so let me give you a strategy that might be able to help you It helped me. Create a power statement that you can repeat, you know, some kind of an affirmation. When you're starting to feel that negativity sweep in or that overwhelm of uncertainty, tell yourself, like, for example, I'll say, you know, I'm amazing. I have the strength, ability, determination, and resolve to focus on solutions, not problems. I'm grateful for the problems in my life because they give me the knowledge, experience, and wisdom to help everyone else to create the best versions of themselves. And it allows me to unleash my potential and create my best life. Create a statement. Create some kind of a power phrase that you can use to help you. Because remember, nothing's permanent, nothing's pervasive, and nothing's personal. And, you know, it reminds me just in my kind of final thought to you today of that quote from Shakespeare's play Hamlet. there is nothing either good or bad, but thinking makes it so. There's nothing either good or bad, but thinking makes it so. Your meaning that you give to events in your life are going to be what determines how you react to things in your life. And just remember that the amount of uncertainty that you can live with, and there's a lot of uncertainty right now, the amount of uncertainty you can live with is in direct proportion to the quality of life that you're going to live. And so I hope that's a message that'll help you today. Think about that as you go throughout the day. Tomorrow, I want to talk to you about five steps that you can use to stay on track to your goals or get back on track if you're not on track right now. And so tomorrow, we're going to talk about those five steps. For now, do me a favor, share the show. Share this Daily Mastermind episode. If you got something out of it, share it and help us spread the message. That's my message for today. Once again, I'm George Wright III and this has been The Daily Mastermind. Have a great day. Thank you.

About the host
George Wright III, host of The Daily Mastermind

George Wright III

George Wright III is an entrepreneur, investor, and the host of The Daily Mastermind. Over more than two decades he has founded and scaled several multimillion-dollar companies and built a renowned seminar business that put some of the world's biggest names and brands on stage. With 25+ years across marketing, sales, and executive leadership, he's made a career of turning bold ideas into results — and momentum into lasting growth.

Today his mission is singular: empower driven entrepreneurs everywhere to master their mindset, unlock their potential, and live their ultimate destiny. Through The Daily Mastermind, George shares the Prosperity Principles and strategies that help people create massive change — in their business and in their life.

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