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Episode 852 · Sep 20, 2023

How to Get Through a Bad Day: 4 Strategies That Work

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George Wright III opens this Daily Mastermind episode with a question worth sitting with: when was the last time you had a truly bad day? Not just a rough afternoon, but the kind of day where you hit snooze repeatedly and can not summon the motivation for anything. He revisits this topic periodically because bad days follow patterns, and patterns can be broken.

The episode opens with a Benjamin Franklin quote George calls one of his favorites: "There are two ways of being happy. We must either diminish our wants or augment our means." It is a sharp lens for the day ahead: happiness is not out of reach; it is within your control when you make the decision to pursue it.

The Story You Tell Yourself on Bad Days

Bad days rarely arrive without a narrative attached. You start telling yourself things like "this always happens to me," or "I hate my job," or "this is just how my relationship is." George challenges you to notice that story. Awareness is the first crack in the cycle.

"We all have these types of days, but it's how you respond to these days that are going to define you as a person and determine the level of success and happiness that you have in your life."

Ninety percent of success, George reminds you, is just showing up. Acknowledge that you are making effort and making progress, even when everything else seems to be going sideways. The habit of having bad days is partly a habit of letting them define you.

Act in Spite of Your Mood: Prosperity Pillar Number Three

George points to one of his core frameworks: Prosperity Pillar number three, "I act in spite of my mood." This pillar exists precisely because moods are unreliable guides. You cannot wait to feel motivated before you act. The action itself is what creates momentum and breaks the cycle. Knowing this ahead of time is what separates people who move forward from people who stay stuck.

Build Structure to Reduce Bad Days

The first practical strategy George offers is structure. The more structure you build into your life, the fewer bad days you will have. Structure is not rigidity. It is your ability to set the direction of your life and stay on track.

This means daily rituals, consistent routines, predictable workout times, and clear commitments. When your day has no structure, random friction is more likely to derail you. When structure is in place, you move through the day even on hard ones.

Use Your Schedule as an Anchor

Schedule is the clearest example of structure in action. Appointments with a trainer, a business partner, or a friend do not disappear just because you are having a bad day. That commitment pulls you through.

"Doing a call, Zooms, meetings, even when you don't feel like doing it. That structure will pull you through your day and the schedule will help you to be able to make that day consistent."

George also recommends scheduling memories, lifestyle moments, and relationship time alongside work. These create the balance that refreshes your mind and offsets the difficult stretches. When you are in a rough patch, look at your schedule and use it as the anchor it was designed to be.

Create External and Internal Accountability

The third strategy is accountability. Human nature avoids pain and stress, which means left on your own, you will skip important things on bad days. Accountability counters that impulse.

External accountability comes from mentors, trainers, business partners, and relationships: people who pull you in a direction regardless of how you feel. Internal accountability comes from milestones, tracking, and measuring your own progress. As George puts it, if your life is worth living and you want success, you have to measure, track, and report. KPIs are not just for businesses; they work for your personal life too. A 30-day challenge or a regular check-in with a mentor can be enough to keep you moving when you would otherwise stop.

Define Your Non-Negotiables Before the Bad Day Hits

The fourth strategy is deciding your non-negotiables in advance. These are the commitments you keep no matter how you feel or what your day throws at you. They are anchored in your core values.

What is non-negotiable in your health, your relationships, your success? George's own example is the gym. No matter how late the night before, he goes, because he knows it primes his entire day.

"Make the decision and commitment ahead of time that no matter what you feel like and no matter what your day is doing, you're never going to stop taking those non-negotiables and putting them aside."

Alongside non-negotiables, George encourages you to identify your "big dominoes": the one action that, if completed, knocks everything else into place. It might be prospecting, meditation, journaling, or a key relationship conversation. Find that lever and protect it.

Action Steps

  • Audit your daily routine and build at least one consistent structure, such as a set workout time or a daily planning block, that holds regardless of your mood.
  • Put important commitments on the calendar in advance, including relationship time and personal milestones, so your schedule anchors you on hard days.
  • Identify one external accountability partner (a mentor, trainer, or peer) and one internal accountability measure (a KPI, milestone, or tracking habit) to keep you on track.
  • Write down three to five non-negotiables rooted in your core values and commit to honoring them even when you are having a bad day.
  • Name your single biggest domino: the one action that, when done, drives everything else forward, and protect it as a daily priority.

Every single day is a clean slate. Every moment is an opportunity to turn things around. A single decision made at a pivotal moment can reverse the direction of your entire day. The goal is not to eliminate all hard days permanently but to minimize them, break the cycles faster, and keep recognizing your own effort and progress along the way.

It is never too late to start living the life you were meant to live.

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Okay, welcome back to the Daily Mastermind. George Wright III here with your daily dose of inspiration, motivation, and education. And let's get your Wednesday morning started off with the quote of the day from Benjamin Franklin. I love this quote, by the way. There are two ways of being happy. We must either diminish our wants or augment our means. I think that's a great perspective on happiness from Benjamin Franklin because I think so many of us find happiness as some other thing. And what we find is that it's within our control when we actually decide to be happy. But if you can diminish the things you want, which are keeping you from happiness or augment your means, those are two very good strategies and ideas for creating happiness. So let's get today to the topic, which is how to get through a tough day. It's Wednesday. It's the middle of the week. And I'm so glad you're here spending time with me on the mastermind. But I want to ask you a question. When was the last time you had a bad day? When was the last time you really had a bad day? Maybe you're having one right now. Maybe it's just a bad week overall. But you know what I mean. The kind of day where you hit your snooze bar from the beginning of the morning, right? You turn your alarm off. You just can't remember how many things that went bad that day. And the kind of day where you just don't feel like doing anything. Once a year or so, I bring back this topic because it's one that I think we sometimes fall into the habit of having these bad days and we tell ourselves a story. And the story is, this is, you know, this always happens to me or these things are just part of my job or I hate my job or this is part of my relationship or whatever it is. But what is the story you've been telling yourself when you have these bad days? What's the thing that drives you into these different scenarios? and when it does happen, when you're having a bad day, if you're having a bad week, a bad day, you've gotta stop. You've gotta create awareness for your life and you gotta remember, like I said last week, that 90% of success is just showing up. Start by acknowledging that regardless of the circumstances, you are actually making effort. You are making progress. You can recognize and appreciate what you do have even though everything else seems to be going wrong. Because listen, the bottom line is this. We all have these types of days, but it's how you respond to these days that are going to define you as a person and determine the level of success and happiness that you have in your life. I want to talk today about what you can really do to get out of these little mental traps that we get in getting stuck in these cycles the trapped inside my head type of deal or I don wanna do what I doing or I hate my job kind of days I wanna talk to you about that because I think that there's some things we can do to give you some structure and framework to get out of these cycles that you're in of having bad days. So first I wanna draw your attention to and remind you of prosperity pillar number three. I act in spite of my mood. There's a reason that this pillar exists. I know it's easier said than done, but let's talk about ways that you can act in spite of your mood regardless of the days. I want to be able to ensure that you can eliminate, reduce, or deal with these days in a more productive way. So the first, and it's four things, four steps that I generally try to do when I'm having a bad day. The first is understand structure. The more you settle into structure, the less of these bad days you're going to have. You've got to find ways to set and control your own structure. For example, daily rituals. What do you do when you work out? What's the structure of your meetings? What's the structure of your routine? What are the structures of your commitments? There's a difference between daily rituals and structure. But I want you to understand that when you put structure in place, you don't get derailed as quickly. When you have random meetings or you just go to the gym whenever you feel like it or these rituals get put into no structure at all. What happens is you can have more of these bad days. So learn to create structure in your life. Structure is not control. Structure is your ability to determine the direction of your life and keep you on track. So really work on the structure in your life. The second thing is your schedule. Schedule is so important. The best example I can give you of structure is a schedule. Doing a call, Zooms, meetings, even when you don't feel like doing it, That structure will pull you through your day and the schedule will help you to be able to make that day consistent. For example, appointments with a trainer, a friend, relationships, putting things scheduled into your day that will keep you focused on what's most important, your business, your family, your lifestyle. Just like you would with a job gives you structure and gives you schedule, you need to do that in your own life. And you also, by the way, need to make time and schedule in memories, lifestyle, relationship, the things that will help to offset the bad things that might be happening in your life because you have that overall balance. And it'll help you to refresh your mind as well. So when you work on shifting your schedule when you having a bad day you can find that it going to help you to break out of that cycle The third thing I want you to think about is accountability Now why do I say accountability Accountability is something outside of yourself that can help you to stay away from these cycles. Human nature fights, it fights things around you. It tries to protect you from pain and stress and all those types of things. We need accountability to survive and thrive, to help push us through bad days. Accountability you might find as a mentor, a trainer, a relationship, a business relationship, milestones that you have put in your life for accountability. Things that will require you to push through a bad day, regardless of whether you want to do it. Sometimes it's those challenges you've given yourself, a 30-day, a seven-day, whatever it is, challenge, will keep you pushing through when you have bad days. but find internal and external ways to create accountability in your life. And what I mean by that is external ways would be, like I said, the mentors, relationships, trainers, people that will help you to pull you in a direction. But internal ways are things like milestones and measuring your progress and things that will help you keep personal accountability so that you don't get caught up in a bad day. Measure and track and report your life. If your life is worth living and you want to create success, you've got to measure, track, and report. Sometimes reporting is simply the best way to create accountability. Have those KPIs in your business or in your life. And then the fourth thing you can do to really get out of a bad day is to create non-negotiables ahead of time. What do I mean by non-negotiables? You have to decide what is non-negotiable in your life, regardless of whether you're having a good day or a bad day. There are certain things that are non-negotiable. Base this around your key values. What's non-negotiable in your health? What's non-negotiable in your relationship, your success, people around you? If it's non-negotiable, you're going on a date night, don't overlook that because you're having a bad day. If it's non-negotiable that you're going to be doing your workout every morning, don't put that on hold if you decide you're having a bad day. Make the decision and commitment ahead of time that no matter what you feel like and no matter what your day is doing, you're never going to stop taking those non-negotiables and putting them aside. Health and fitness is one of mine. People talk about man even no matter how late at night I out or what I do or how I do I going to go to the gym because I know it primes my day So that a non The other thing you can do is determine the big dominoes that you can set in your life What is the one thing that if you do it will help you to knock down all the other dominoes, all the other big things in your life? Maybe it's prospecting, maybe it's a relationship, maybe it's meditation or journaling. It could be a daily ritual or it could be an event in your life, but determine what's most important in your life and make it non-negotiables. Now, remember this. I want you to really think and hear what I say when I say this to you. Every single day is a clean slate. Every moment is an opportunity to turn things around. So the very fact that you think you're having a bad day, you need to remind yourself that at a pivotal moment, you can turn everything around simply by making a decision and a choice, basically a choice that you're not going to have a bad day. See, the problem is most of us just get caught up in it. Learn to minimize the number of bad days in your life with these kind of strategies that I'm talking to you about and learn to break the cycles. When you recognize and you learn to become aware of the cycles you have in your life where every once in a while you get in a bad mood or every once in a while you slack off at the gym or in your business or in your relationship, learn to recognize those, eliminate those bad days, eliminate those cycles by finding ways to push through and recognize that your efforts are great, that you have made progress, that you have intrinsic value, and that you're committed to growing and becoming a better version of yourself. When you do that, you're gonna start having less and less of these bad days. So that's my message for today. I hope, I sincerely hope that you will, if you've had a bad day or a bad week, turn it on a dime today and turn it into a positive thing and start to put more of the structure and these priorities in your life. Learn to find the non-negotiables. Learn to find accountability and set a schedule and structure. If you do this, I promise you, you'll have more success in your life. That's the message for today. Do me a favor and share this show. Share it. If you've learned anything, just do me a favor. It would mean the world to me, but just share it with at least one other person. Tag me in your post if you do it on Instagram or Facebook and go hit me up on The Daily Mastermind on either of those social channels and let me know what you're working on. Let me know what you're struggling with. What can I do to help you? That's why I'm here. That's why you've tuned in. And I hope you'll tune in again tomorrow. We got some great topics for you. I look forward to talking with you then. Have a great day.

About the host
George Wright III, host of The Daily Mastermind

George Wright III

George Wright III is an entrepreneur, investor, and the host of The Daily Mastermind. Over more than two decades he has founded and scaled several multimillion-dollar companies and built a renowned seminar business that put some of the world's biggest names and brands on stage. With 25+ years across marketing, sales, and executive leadership, he's made a career of turning bold ideas into results — and momentum into lasting growth.

Today his mission is singular: empower driven entrepreneurs everywhere to master their mindset, unlock their potential, and live their ultimate destiny. Through The Daily Mastermind, George shares the Prosperity Principles and strategies that help people create massive change — in their business and in their life.

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