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Episode 936 · Mar 11, 2024

Failure is the Key to Success: Overcoming Fear of Failure

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George Wright III opens this episode of The Daily Mastermind with a direct challenge: how do you think about failure? Most people treat it as something to avoid at all costs. But George argues that this instinct is exactly what keeps 80% of people unprepared for the challenges and changes life inevitably brings. Until you understand the real dynamics between failure and success, fear will keep you stuck.

This is not a motivational pep talk full of empty reassurances. It is a mindset shift grounded in how every successful person has actually made it. George breaks down why failure is not the opposite of success but the very path that leads there.

Why Fear of Failure Holds Most People Back

Fear of failure is widespread because most people misread what failure actually means. When you fall short, the inner critic rushes in: you are not good enough, you made the wrong call, you will never make it. George pushes back hard on all three of those conclusions.

"It's not about whether our decisions are right or wrong. It's about our ability to always be able to learn from our experiences."

When you put failure in its proper perspective, the fear around it dissolves. The problem is not the failure itself. The problem is the story you attach to it.

How Successful People View Failure Differently

Think about Thomas Edison. Reporters asked him how it felt to fail a thousand times while inventing the light bulb.

"I didn't fail a thousand times. The light bulb was invented with a thousand steps."

That reframe is everything. Edison did not see a thousand failures. He saw a thousand data points pointing him toward the right answer. Every attempt taught him what did not work, which narrowed the field until he found what did. George invites you to carry that same lens into your own setbacks.

Why Earning Success Through Failure Makes It Sweeter

It is tempting to envy people who seem to achieve success quickly and easily. George asks you to reconsider that envy. People who arrive at the destination without the hard road are not equipped to stay there. They moved so fast they never learned the terrain.

He uses a vivid analogy: two travelers heading to the same destination. One flies. One drives, breaks down, deals with every road problem along the way. Take them both back to the start and ask them to make the trip again without their original transportation. The driver who broke down knows the road. The flyer does not. Struggle builds real, durable capability.

Success earned through failure is always the sweeter experience, and it is the kind that lasts.

What Napoleon Hill Knew About Adversity

George draws on one of the most widely read personal development principles ever articulated: every failure, every adversity, every heartbreak carries with it the seed of an equivalent or greater benefit. Napoleon Hill made this point in his work, and George says it holds up because it is rooted in how growth actually works.

"Failure contains the seed of victory and success in it. So we should seek failure to some degree."

This is not a call to be reckless. It is a call to stop treating failure as a stop sign and start treating it as a signal.

How to Use Failure as a Learning System

When you fail at something, George's prescription is straightforward: go back, study where things went wrong, adjust your methods, and try again. Find what did not work. Look for what might. Talk to people who have succeeded in the same area and learn from their path. Model what works.

The only true failure is stopping. You have never really failed if you do not give up. That belief is what removes the fear: not a guarantee that you will succeed on the next try, but a commitment that no matter what, you will keep learning.

Shifting Your View of Failure Changes Everything

When you stop seeing failure as a threat and start seeing it as a necessity, something important happens to your fear. It shrinks. Problems do not disappear, but your capacity to face them grows. George puts it plainly: do not ask for fewer problems. Ask to be bigger than your problems.

That shift in orientation changes the quality of everything you build. Your success becomes more fulfilling because you earned it through real experience. Your resilience becomes real because it was tested.

Action Steps

  • Identify one area of your life where fear of failure is keeping you from taking action. Name it clearly.
  • When you face a setback, ask one question before anything else: what did this teach me?
  • Study one person who succeeded in the area you are pursuing. Learn how they handled their failures, not just their wins.
  • Commit to the process rather than a specific outcome. Define success as staying in the game and learning, not as avoiding mistakes.
  • Replace the thought "I failed" with "I found one way that does not work" and look for the next step.

George closes with the reminder he returns to often: it is never too late to start living the life you were meant to live. Your success, your happiness, and your fulfillment are waiting on the other side of your fear. Learn to see failure as the key to the gateway rather than as the end of the road, and you will carry that lesson for the rest of your life.

READ THE FULL TRANSCRIPT

welcome back to the daily mastermind george wright the third here with your morning dose of inspiration motivation and education i want to talk to you today about failure and your fear i want to talk to you about both of those things and why failure is actually a really good thing for you. Why do we view failure differently than a lot of successful people? How do you view failure? Do you see it as something negative that, you know, you don't want to be associated with, or you just don't want to have failure in your life? Or do you see it as something positive? Most people in the world, quite frankly, and I'm probably one of them at times, I don't like failure. Fear of failure is actually the main reason though, why 80% of people in the world are not prepared for all of these changes and circumstances that are happening in the world, this fear of failure. So why do people fear failure so much? Well, the reason is because people don't understand the real dynamics involved with success and failure. I had an article I did about this with my partner, Robert Stubberg in our personal development company, why failure is greater than success. And it really got me thinking about this. Why do people fear failure so much? The reason is because, like I said, they just don't understand this dynamic of success and failure. Remember, it's not about when we're making a decision or we're trying to find a direction in our life or we're dealing with circumstances. It's not about going the right or wrong way so that we'll be successful or avoid failure. It's about our ability to always be able to learn from our experiences. It's not about whether our decisions are right or wrong. Now, don't get me wrong. We're not talking about morality and ethics here. There is a right and wrong, but I'm talking about when you're struggling with decisions that hold you back because of your fear of failure. Understand this because it important that you put failure in the proper perspective And listen to me closely here because when you put failure in the proper perspective it melts your fear away When you put that fear of failure in the proper perspective it removes the fears around it. So when someone who doesn't understand the dynamics meets with temporary failure, they're thinking that they're not good enough or that they're never going to make it or that they made the wrong decision. But is this really the case? I mean, does the fact that you didn't make the success happen or go the right way, does it really mean that you're not good enough? I think, you know, that's not what it means. And does it mean that you'll never make it? I think, you know, that's not what it means either. So why do we let this get caught up to create so many fears around taking the wrong action? You know, all you have to do is find the right path and you do that through failure. So what do you do? You go back and when you fail at something, you go back and you try to figure out where you went wrong. You try again. This time you, you, you come up with different methods. You find what didn't work and you go with what maybe as a new idea that might work. I mean, talk to any successful person who has made it in this, in this area of success. Think, think of what, you know, in the same thing you're doing, think of what you can, you know, who you can talk to and what you can do to, to pattern what they've done, but whatever you do, don't give up because you've never really failed if you don't give up. And that's what helps you to remove the fear is not, not wondering whether you're going to make it, but knowing that no matter what, you're not going to give up, that you're always going to learn a lesson. Why? Because every failure, every adversity, every heartbreak carries with it the seed of an equivalent or greater benefit. Does that sound familiar? I mean, that's Napoleon Hill with one of the all-time most, you know, read books out there. Napoleon Hill said that. And failure contains the seed of victory and success in it. So we should seek failure to some degree. I mean, failure teaches us what works and what doesn't. When we study the reasons for our failure and we learn from it, we find the real keys to success That great inventor Thomas Edison knew this truth better than anybody You know it took Edison what they say a thousand ways to test the light bulb for him to figure out the right materials to create the light bulb. And when a reporter asked him, you know, how did it feel to fail a thousand times? He said, I didn't fail a thousand times. The light bulb was invented with a thousand steps, meaning he viewed failure differently, different than most of us. We need to all learn to be like that. Every successful person has had to overcome temporary defeat at one time or so in their life. You got to know this, you got to own this and your fears will start to disappear when you do this. You haven't really failed unless you accept defeat. So don't let failure feed your fear. You know, do you envy people? And here's another really important thought. Do you envy people that made or got success easily. You shouldn't. Why shouldn't you? Because success earned through failure is always a sweeter experience. And it's always, I know what you're saying. You're saying, George, look, I'd much rather not have to fail to get where I need to be. But you have to understand that those who earn success in a quick road to success, they're, they're, they're, you know, they're not equipped. They're not equipped to be able to do what they need to do. The people that got there easily there. They got it so quickly that they didn't bother to look around and they're not equipped to handle the more long-term difficulties. Let me use an example. Take two people that are traveling to the same destination. And one of them got there by an airplane. And one of them got there by breaking down in a car along the way, because they were driving a car. The other guy's on an airplane and one arrives there quicker. The other guy has to break down along the way, deal with all the issues. And it takes, let's say you took those two guys back for whatever reason, they got taken back to their original point of origin. And you said, I want you to get to the destination again. But now you don't have the benefit of the plane in the car. Who do you think is going to be able to get there? Surely the guy that's broken down, that spent time on the road, that knows the direction. I mean this is part of the path and process in life You got to understand that defeat only temporary Don let it be your obstacle Don let failures be your excuse for not moving forward in life Don't put off things because of fear of failure, because failure is actually going to be your greatest ally. Failure is going to be your greatest teacher. Failure is going to be your greatest mentor. So I want you to learn to kind of view failure a little bit differently. View it as a necessity. View it as the key to the gateway and the kingdom of success. You need to approach that. And when you start to shift your view of failure into a more positive role, into a more necessary role, your fears are going to start to go away. Your fears are going to start to be smaller. Don't ask for less problems. Ask to be bigger than your problems. You're going to be stronger that way. You're going to be more successful that way. The success is going to come at a much, much, much more fulfilling pace. And that's the message I want to have for you today. So what is it in your life that you fear? What is it in your life that you really try to avoid? And is that because you're afraid of failure? Are those fears something that keep you from the greatness that you were designed to have? Are your fears of failure or the failure itself something that are keeping you from experiencing the fullness of life for your true potential. You know, you hear me say it all the time. I believe it's never too late to start living the life that you're meant to live. And I do believe that it's never too late to face your fears. And keep in mind that your failures are going to assist you in the process. And keep in mind that no matter what, you're not going to quit. And I promise you, I promise you, you'll get past those fears. your success your happiness your fulfillment lie on the other side of your fear and they lie on the other side of failure learn this lesson and you'll be empowered for the rest of your life that's my message for today i hope you have an amazing day and try to apply this in your life