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Episode 877 · Nov 7, 2023

How to Stop Waiting for the Winds to Change and Take Control of Your Life

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George Wright III opens this episode of The Daily Mastermind with a deceptively simple challenge: stop waiting for circumstances to improve and start steering your life with intention. Using two vivid analogies, George makes the case that the conditions around you matter far less than the direction you set from within.

The Jim Rohn Quote That Frames Everything

George anchors the episode with a line by Jim Rohn: "It is the set of the sails, not the direction of the wind, that determines which way you will go." That one sentence reframes every conversation about adversity, stagnation, and lack of control. The wind is not your enemy. Your relationship to the wind is what matters.

Too many people feel that life is happening *to* them rather than *for* them. They feel stuck, unable to catch a break, moving in a direction they never chose. George's message is direct: you have more control over your life than you currently believe.

What Experienced Sailors Know That Most People Don't

Most people assume a sailboat can only travel in the direction the wind is blowing. An experienced sailor knows otherwise. A skilled sailor can navigate in any direction, including directly against the wind, by adjusting the set of the sail. The wind is constant; the sail is the variable the sailor controls.

It is the set of the sails, not the direction of the wind, that determines which way you will go.

George applies this directly to daily life: when circumstances feel overwhelming, the instinct is to wait for things to calm down. The experienced-sailor mindset says adjust your response, not your destination.

Ancient Sailors, Icebergs, and the Power of Deep Currents

George shares a second story that goes even deeper. Ancient sailors navigating northern seas were baffled when they noticed massive icebergs moving against the direction of the wind. The explanation: 90% of an iceberg's mass sits below the surface. The deep ocean currents beneath the waterline run in entirely different directions than the surface wind. Because the iceberg's mass is below the surface, it follows the deep current, not the surface wind.

The lesson for your life is straightforward. When you establish deep currents inside yourself, including your values, your goals, your core commitments, and the direction you have decided to move, those currents will carry you forward regardless of what is happening on the surface. External circumstances become surface wind: noisy but not controlling.

Why Your Internal Commitments Outweigh Outside Conditions

George is direct: what is going on inside you matters far more than what is going on around you. This is not wishful thinking. It is a practical framework. When you commit to your values and goals in advance, before the hard moments arrive, those commitments become load-bearing. They carry you through when motivation fades, when obstacles appear, and when other people's opinions create resistance.

You need to learn to ground yourself and commit yourself to your values, your goals, your priorities, and the direction you want to go.

The alternative is to be like the novice sailor: moved wherever the wind decides to take you.

Four Ways to Set Your Sail Right Now

George offers four concrete practices for anyone who wants to take back the steering wheel.

Change your perspective, not just your situation. Stop focusing on what is happening and shift to how you are perceiving what is happening. When you change the way you look at things, the things you look at change.

Focus on the goal, not the wind. Stop directing your attention toward the negative, the circumstances, the obstacles. Start from solution. An abundant mindset attracts answers, resources, and people. A scarcity mindset locks you into the problem.

Surround yourself with positive influences. The people, podcasts, music, mentors, and coaches around you shape your internal environment. When the external winds are blowing hard, the energy of your surroundings matters even more.

Protect your daily rituals. When difficult seasons hit, intensify your commitment to your key daily disciplines, the rituals that support your mind, body, spirit, relationships, and work. These disciplines carry you forward when motivation is absent.

Action Steps

  • Identify one situation where you have been waiting for conditions to improve, then ask what you can control right now.
  • Write down three to five core values or goals that can serve as your deep currents, the commitments that hold regardless of surface circumstances.
  • Audit your environment: which people, media, or inputs are adding to the noise, and which are adding to your forward momentum?
  • Build or recommit to a daily ritual practice that covers at least one dimension of mind, body, and purpose.
  • When the winds feel strongest, resist the urge to pause; focus harder on your rituals and the direction you have already chosen.

You have everything you need to steer your life in the direction you want. Nothing outside of you is required to start. It's never too late to start living the life you were meant to live.

READ THE FULL TRANSCRIPT

Welcome back to the Daily Mastermind. My name is George Wright III with your daily dose of inspiration, motivation, and education. I hope you are having an amazing week. I had a message I wanted to share with you today, and it's a couple of different thoughts and things that I've been working on. But the title of it is, Don't Wait for the Winds to Change in Your Life. Don't wait for the winds to change in your life. Here's an interesting thought. I heard a quote by Jim Rohn, and it's, it is the set of the sails, not the direction of the wind, that determines which way you will go. So think about that for a second. It's not the direction of the winds, it's the set of your sail. So what does this actually mean? Well, this is very applicable for today, because you may be feeling like everything is pushing you around in life right now. You may feel like life is happening to you rather than for you. Or maybe you just can't feel, you feel like you just can't catch a break or you are not making progress. You're not moving forward. So many people feel stagnant in life right now. Or maybe you just simply don't feel like you have any control over the direction that you're going, whether it's your business, your personal life, your relationships, your fitness, whatever it is. So many things around you, you don't have control over. Well, let me just use a couple of analogies to help you realize something very important. And that is, you have much more control than you think you have over the direction of your life. You definitely have the ability to make some change. So I'm going to tell you a story real quick where it's really more an example of sailing. Now, I'm not a sailor. You know what I'm talking about, sailing on the ocean in a boat with a sail. I've heard a couple of different interesting stories and I kind of researched this to see if it was true but most people know that you can get in a sailboat and when the wind's blowing it's going to blow you in the direction that the wind's blowing however an experienced sailor someone who knows how to sail they know that it doesn matter where the wind is blowing where it coming from or what direction it going in Because an experienced sailor can navigate any direction regardless of the wind's direction. In fact, they can even sail against the wind, kind of going back and forth. And I'm not going to get into the details of why and how, but they learn to navigate and set their sails in a way that it pushes them in a direction that allows them to come back and sail into the wind, back and forth into the wind. So you know from this example that it's not the direction of the wind that takes them in the direction they want. It's the set of their sail. This is what Jim Rohn's talking about. This is a huge example of the difference between someone who's being blown about in life because of everything outside of them and someone that learns to navigate life and go in a direction that they want to go. Now I'm going to give you one other example because this is this is a really cool thing i heard a while back but can give you another example of this and it's the story of ancient sailors now we're talking go way back in time to ancient sailors that traveled you know in the cold northern seas they used to see something really crazy now this is early on before we had a bunch of a lot of science and information that we have now, but the sailors would be sailing through these cold waters and they would see these giant masses of ice, which we know are icebergs. But these icebergs would be going in a different direction than the wind. They would be literally going against the wind, these icebergs. And they would notice these massive icebergs and it just baffled them as to why they were moving the opposite direction. It was just crazy. And any guesses as to why? You might be thinking in your mind, well, most of us know that 90%, even though these icebergs were huge, 90% of their mass was actually below the water. So these huge icebergs were only 10% was above the water, 90% were below the water. And we learned over time that the ocean has deep currents well below the surface that don travel in the same direction that we travel or the wind travels so they they in fact might be going the opposite direction of the the wind but because these massive icebergs were mostly below the surface they would be carried in the direction of the currents below the surface of the ocean and this is an example this is just another example of of how it doesn't matter what the wind is doing if your current or if your sail is set the right way and even more importantly the reason I like this is if you can learn to establish deep currents in your life they can carry you in the direction you want to go regardless of what's going on outside of you and what are these currents well when you establish these deep currents in your life like your values or your goals or your passion or even just the direction that you've decided in advance that you want to go and you're committed to it. These deep currents can carry you forward regardless of what's going on. What does this mean? What doesn't matter what's going on in your business, what's going on in your relationships, your life and things like this. If there's situations that are coming up, it doesn't matter what other people think. What really matters is what's going on inside you, inside your mind, not outside around you. You need to learn to ground yourself and commit yourself to your values, your goals, your priorities, and the direction you want to go. And you need to prepare ahead of time to be able to deal with these things that are happening outside of you. And you know, when you make decisions and commitments to your goals and values and you follow through on those, they will carry you through when motivation goes away, when other things come up in your life, obstacles. So let's just give you a couple examples of how you can change the direction in your life despite the direction the wind may be blowing for you. Number one, learn to focus on your perspective of situations rather than the situations themselves. Stop focusing on what is happening and focus on how you perceive what's happening because when you So you change the way you look at things, the things you look at change And number two stop focusing on the actual wind itself Focus on the goal that you have right So if you stop focusing on the negative or the circumstances or the situation and you start focusing on solution, we talk a lot about starting from solution, you'll be in an abundant mindset. You won't be in a scarcity mindset. Answers, solutions, people, resources, they'll come your way. So stop focusing on the wind and the circumstances and start focusing on solutions. Number three, surround yourself with positive, positive people, positive environment. It doesn't matter if it's music, you know, podcasts, mentors, coaches, positive people. Get yourself surrounded by a better energy of positivity when you're dealing with things in your life. And finally, number four, I always come back to focus intensely when the winds are blowing hard. focus intensely on your key daily rituals. The things that you do for your mind, body, spirit, your social, your business, the rituals that are gonna happen no matter what is going on around outside you and those disciplines will take you forward. Those are my main suggestions for you to implement but I want you to know that I believe you can steer yourself in whatever direction that you wanna focus on. You do have what it takes. You do have everything that is necessary. There's nothing outside of you that you need to be able to create the life that you want to live. And it's never too, just remember this, it's never too late to start living the life you want to live, you were meant to live. So I hope that's something that will help you, give you a few little examples and analogies you can use to motivate and inspire yourself to create the life that you wanna live. And that's my message for today. I hope you have an amazing day. Do me a favor and share and refer this podcast. Send this message to someone you feel like needs it. Help us make some change in people's lives and give back and create service around you. That's my message for today. As I said before, feel free to send me any comments that you may have. My name is George Wright III, and this has been The Daily Mastermind. Have a great day.

About the host
George Wright III, host of The Daily Mastermind

George Wright III

George Wright III is an entrepreneur, investor, and the host of The Daily Mastermind. Over more than two decades he has founded and scaled several multimillion-dollar companies and built a renowned seminar business that put some of the world's biggest names and brands on stage. With 25+ years across marketing, sales, and executive leadership, he's made a career of turning bold ideas into results — and momentum into lasting growth.

Today his mission is singular: empower driven entrepreneurs everywhere to master their mindset, unlock their potential, and live their ultimate destiny. Through The Daily Mastermind, George shares the Prosperity Principles and strategies that help people create massive change — in their business and in their life.

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