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Episode 355 · Mar 23, 2021

How to Deal With Adversity: Lessons From a Chaotic Morning

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What happens when everything goes wrong at once? George Wright III, host of The Daily Mastermind, turned one genuinely disastrous morning into a masterclass on handling adversity. His story is entertaining, a little stressful to read, and packed with lessons that apply far beyond airports and missed flights.

The episode begins with a scenario most travelers dread: it's 6:30 a.m., your flight leaves in 90 minutes, you're 45 minutes from the airport, and your ride never shows up.

When Everything Goes Wrong at Once

George found himself in exactly that spot. No Lyft, no Uber (southern Utah at that hour has limited options), and a looming departure for meetings he couldn't miss. He tracked down a cab driven by Armando from Peru, who drove with urgency while George tried to stay calm.

That was just the first obstacle. At the airport, the Sky Priority line ran out the door despite George's Delta million-miler status. Then the TSA PreCheck line, which is supposed to move fast, turned out to be the longest he'd ever seen. At the gates, he discovered he was assigned to the B concourse at Salt Lake City, which meant walking nearly a mile through the A gates and then taking an underground passageway with no moving sidewalks, in a suit, with a briefcase, sweating.

The metal detector beeped. Twice. He took off his shoes. He made it through. Then he still had to catch a shuttle to reach his plane.

He arrived at the gate with three minutes to spare before it closed.

The Mental Filter That Changes Everything

George's central insight is not about airport logistics. It's about the lens you put on a situation. He calls it your "filter."

When something goes wrong, most people skip immediately to worst-case thinking. That's not weakness; it's neuroscience. He points to neuroplasticity:

you've got to learn to train your mind to not work against you but work for you because remember this whole concept of neuroplasticity says the neurons that fire together wire together

If you habitually jump to the worst-case scenario, your brain gets faster and faster at doing exactly that. The goal is to build new pathways, ones that move toward solutions instead of shutdowns.

George isn't claiming adversity stops feeling hard. He's saying you can deliberately practice a different response until that response becomes the default.

Focus on the Very Next Step

One of the clearest frameworks George offers is to stop thinking about the end game when you're in the middle of a hard situation. Whether it's a missed flight, a divorce, a failing business, or depression, the full weight of the problem can paralyze you before you've even started.

He references a theme from two films, The Martian with Matt Damon and Apollo 13 with Tom Hanks, where the survival lesson comes down to one rule:

in space you have to just deal with one issue at a time. You don't think past the one issue.

That morning, George didn't ask "am I going to make this flight?" He asked "can I get a cab?" Once he had the cab, he asked "can I get through this line?" Each small step was its own win. Each win kept him moving.

This approach matters in everyday life, not just emergencies. When you break a hard situation into the smallest possible next action, you give yourself a chance to succeed at something, and that momentum compounds.

Find the Positive and Name It

Finding the positive is not the same as pretending a problem doesn't exist. George is specific: he genuinely enjoyed his conversation with Armando. He noticed interesting people along the way. He arrived.

Find the gratitude. You know, the positive is I met a really great individual on the cab. The positive is I found some interesting people along the way.

The practice of naming what went right does two things. First, it gives your brain a different anchor than the stress. Second, it reinforces the neurological pathways that lead to optimism over time. Gratitude is not a soft skill; it is a training habit.

Recognize the Wins Along the Way

George makes a point that often gets overlooked: we don't give ourselves credit for small victories because we're still focused on the destination. You got through the security line but you're not at the gate yet, so it doesn't count. You finished a hard conversation but the relationship isn't fixed yet, so it doesn't count.

This habit of deferring satisfaction until you reach the end goal means you experience almost no satisfaction at all. Progress feels invisible. Recognizing incremental wins isn't self-congratulation; it's a necessary part of sustaining effort through difficulty.

Action Steps

  • When adversity hits, stop and identify the single smallest next step you can take right now. Don't look at the full problem; just focus on that one step.
  • Notice your mental filter. If you automatically go to worst-case thinking, practice pausing and asking "what's one thing that could work out here?"
  • After getting through a hard situation, actively name what you're grateful for, even small things like a helpful stranger or a problem that resolved itself.
  • Track the small wins as you go. Don't wait for the finish line to recognize that you're making progress.

Adversity is not a sign that things are falling apart. It is often the exact situation that reveals what you're capable of. George's airport morning could have ended with him sitting in a hotel lobby, rescheduling everything. Instead, it ended with three minutes to spare and a set of lessons worth sharing.

Focus on the next step. Find the positive. Recognize every win, no matter how small. It's never too late to start living the life you were meant to live.

READ THE FULL TRANSCRIPT

all right welcome back to the daily mastermind George Wright the third here with your daily dose of inspiration motivation and education I am back in LA I have got an awesome story for you it's it's actually a story that would have been catastrophic but I think I I'm gonna turn it into a learning lesson. And so imagine with me for a second that it's like 630 in the morning, your flight leaves in about 90 minutes, and you're about 45 minutes from the airport, and your ride doesn't show up. And you've got key, key meetings that you've got to be back to. What would you do? You know, if you've ever traveled, then you already know that if you're like me, you probably have anxiety in the first place. You got to, you know, make sure you got everything you need and traveling takes longer and the airport and things normally and in the past this definitely would have freaked me out but I've told myself recently that I'm going to do my best to find the positive in everything and and push through the examples you know normally I would be like all right I'm gonna miss my flight what am I gonna do let's go to the next you know step what do we do but not today today I was just gonna go for it I was gonna go for broke so let me give you the timeline of what happened here. And then, you know, other than some entertainment value, maybe there's some lessons learned for you. So the first part of this story is the transportation. So I'm digging into my mobile app. I'm looking for Lyft. I'm looking for Uber. But where I live in southern Utah, there's really none running. And, you know, I've had experiences in some big cities recently where I've even requested rides and then they keep canceling on me because there's no real ride there. I don't know if this is a Lyft thing or Uber or whatever. And so I was really worried about that. So couldn't find a ride, couldn't find anywhere to go. So I decided to get a cab. And, you know, expensive, but it was worth it. So I got a cab, finally got a hold of one. It's like 6.30 in the morning. And this guy, Armando from Peru. So Armando from Peru, hopefully you're listening to this episode. Ended up having a great conversation with this guy. Great guy. He drove like crazy. I was totally stressed. But at the end of the day, you know, pushed through that step and realized that, you know, things can work out, you know, and how you address the situation, the filter you have on the situation, as I always talk about, is a key. So I got the cab, got to the airport, and then it hit me. The lines. I looked at even though I have status I a million miler with Delta I looked at the lines and the Sky Priority line it was out the door And I thought to myself this is insane Even with status there nothing I going to do about this But I told myself you know what just get through the line You know, the worst case that's going to happen is you're not going to make your flight. And I was able to get through the line. And unfortunately, when I got up there to check in, I found out I was at the B gates. And for those of you that have flown Delta in Salt Lake City, you realize that even with that massive new $2 billion airport, The B gates are like in the middle of nowhere. And so that's okay. I go to the next step. I get over to security. And fortunately for me, and people think, you know, traveling is just like all kinds of fun and excitement. But for me, traveling is just a nature of business. And so I try to do what I can to ease the traveling. So I'm TSA pre-check, which means I can kind of skip the security lines. And I don't have to take off my shoes and my belt and all those kind of things. I get to the TSA pre-check line, and I kid you not, the longest line I have ever seen. I've never seen a wait in the security pre-check line. And I thought to myself, you got to be kidding me. Like, there's just no way this is going to happen. And so I wait through that line, and now we're really getting down to the wire. I mean, this flight leaves in maybe like half hour, 40 minutes at this point. That's probably like 45 minutes. But I just kept telling myself, you know, let's just get through this line and see where we go. So, and I get through, finally get through that. And I'm like, I'm not taking any chances. I take my belt off, my shoes, everything, even though I didn't need to, everything except my shoes. And beep, beep, beep, beep, the security metal detector goes off. And I'm like, there's just no way this is happening. And it goes off again. So I pull all my shoes off and I get through and I found out that it's my shoes, which is kind of crazy. So I get through. I just couldn't believe it you know my belt my wallet my shoes you know I'm at this point I'm saying to myself maybe I'm not supposed to take this flight maybe there's a reason that I'm not supposed to go but I tell myself I'm going through the finish line on this whole positive positive thought process this is going to work out so I find out I'm at the B gates which is imagine walking like a half mile to get to the end of the A gates and then you have to take an underground passageway another half mile to get to the B gates and there's no moving sidewalks I'm my suit with my briefcase. I'm sweating bullets. At this point, like I said, I'm wondering whether or not I'm even going to make it, but I'm like, nah, let's just do it. Let's just make this happen. And I get there and I find out you got to take a shuttle to still get to the plane So bottom line is this I actually made it with like three minutes to spare before they closed the gate and closed the plane But the bottom line is if I had thought about for a second, the whole process I would have had to go through to get there, I would have given up before I had started. I would have made some kind of excuse of, it's okay, I could take the next one. I'll go tomorrow. I'll do whatever. and obviously I feel like if I could give you some entertainment value from that, that's great. But really the bottom line is this. I feel like there's always lessons to be learned and this is no exception. So I wrote down a few things because I started analyzing what happened and how I dealt with this situation. Because remember, I've said this before, if you have trouble dealing with your filter on life or your filter on situations, you've got to learn to train your mind to not work against you but work for you because remember this whole concept of neuroplasticity says the neurons that fire together wire together so if you always have negative thoughts or you always skip to the worst case scenario or you always do that thing the more often you do that the more frequent and the more often and the quicker you do that the faster you'll automatically go that way with your mind and i'm saying to myself you know, look, I want to make sure that I am creating pathways with my mind that are quicker to go to the positive. And it's not natural for us to do that, but quicker go to the positive, quicker to find solutions. And so here's what I took from this experience. And maybe it's something that can help you with things you're dealing with right now. The first is don't miss the opportunity to learn from situations you go through, even if they're bad, even if they're good. Definitely take a second and think about and learn from the situation that you've gone through. The second thing is, it's very, very important, and I've had this happen multiple times in my life, that if you're going through something serious, something difficult, something hard, it's very important not to think about the end game, not to think about whether you're going to come out on top or not. The key is just to focus on the very next step, the very next obstacle. I can't remember if it was, and this topic's come up several times in different movies, whether it's Matt Damon, who played in The Martian, or Tom Hanks with Apollo 13. But the bottom line is they made the comment, they said, in space you have to just deal with one issue at a time. You don't think past the one issue. And I feel like that's a great teaching moment, especially today, where I said to myself, okay, I'm just going to get transportation. Once I got that of course I got hit with another problem but I just going to get through that problem And once I get through that problem another one may come up but I get through that one I think it so important when you dealing with any kind of adversity or dilemmas or circumstances that you stop and break it down to just the most smallest item you can deal with right now. Because it allows you to get a win. It allows you to get the next step in front of you, and it allows you to not focus on the bigger problem. and that's really, really, really important. And when you stop thinking about the end game and you just focus on the very next step, I think that that's something a lot of us fail to do when we're dealing with heavy situations. I mean, there's a lot of people dealing with depression, with divorce, with business issues. Just focus on today. Just focus on the hour. Just focus on your next step and get through that. And I think it's going to get you further than you would have if you got overwhelmed. Another thing I thought about is find the positive. Find the gratitude. You know, the positive is I met a really great individual on the cab. The positive is I found some interesting people along the way. The positive is that, you know, I did get there. I mean, I don't want to just be, okay, I avoided a problem. I need to recognize and be grateful for the fact that everything did come together. And so many of us forget to do that. And you need to ingrain that positivity and gratitude as well. And then the other thing is recognize the win. Sometimes we don't recognize wins that we have because we're not at the end game we're looking for. We don't recognize all the little wins along the way. Well, you can't get that satisfaction and fulfillment in life on the path throughout the process if you don't recognize the wins along the way, and that allows you to help grow as well. So anyway, I hope this was at least somewhat entertaining for you. It was definitely a stressful morning for me, but at a minimum, it gave me the ability to kind of learn and it gave me some lessons that I think we can apply to a lot of areas in our life that maybe aren't so, you know, stressed out, but maybe just average areas that you can deal with every day. Focus on the small steps. Don't miss the opportunity to learn. Make sure that you focus on the positive and the gratitude, and I think it'll serve you well in your life. So I'm looking forward to talking with you more this week. That's my message for today. I hope you've had a great weekend. It's time to get things going this week. I look forward to talking with you more throughout the week. And feel free to hit me up at The Daily Mastermind on Facebook or Instagram. And do me a favor and share this message. Share it with somebody that you know, and hopefully you'll be able to help them be able to get through some of the tough times that they've got as well. I'll talk with you soon.

About the host
George Wright III, host of The Daily Mastermind

George Wright III

George Wright III is an entrepreneur, investor, and the host of The Daily Mastermind. Over more than two decades he has founded and scaled several multimillion-dollar companies and built a renowned seminar business that put some of the world's biggest names and brands on stage. With 25+ years across marketing, sales, and executive leadership, he's made a career of turning bold ideas into results — and momentum into lasting growth.

Today his mission is singular: empower driven entrepreneurs everywhere to master their mindset, unlock their potential, and live their ultimate destiny. Through The Daily Mastermind, George shares the Prosperity Principles and strategies that help people create massive change — in their business and in their life.

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