TDM 1370 - Are You Busy or Making Progress?
George Wright III: [00:00:00] Managing your time isn't about doing everything faster and better. It's about [00:00:05] deciding who deserves and what deserves your attention and your time and refusing to let [00:00:10] interruptions make that decision for you. Because you can't control every demand that comes your way, but you can [00:00:15] definitely become more intentional about how you respond to those demands.
[00:00:20] [00:00:25] All right, guys. Welcome back to The Daily Mastermind. George Wright III with your daily dose of inspiration, [00:00:30] motivation, and education. I'm sitting here in the studio today, and I wanted to talk to you about something that [00:00:35] I think is important that we really keep focused on what [00:00:40] matters most in our life and in our business.
So let me ask you this. Have you ever started your day with a clear plan of what [00:00:45] you wanted to have accomplished only to get to the end of the day and realize that you didn't get any of it [00:00:50] done? You know, uh, b- even though you were busy all day, you answered emails, you returned [00:00:55] phone calls, responded to messages, took care of everybody else's requests.
But the thing is, [00:01:00] is you actually had stuff that you wanted to do, but you didn't get that accomplished [00:01:05] because you're, you're sitting on your list. You know, and tomorrow you're probably gonna do the same thing because h- here's what I've [00:01:10] learned in business. Just because something demands your attention doesn't mean it deserves your priority [00:01:15] And if you don't learn to make that distinction, you're gonna spend your entire life reacting to what [00:01:20] everybody else around you needs instead of intentionally creating your life and your business the way [00:01:25] you want it.
So today I wanna share with you three ideas on, or at least areas where you can [00:01:30] take back control of your time, and it starts with understanding why everything feels urgent. [00:01:35] Because we have to recognize that urgency is not always the same as importance, [00:01:40] and we don't slow down to think about it. I've thought about this a lot because of the opportunity I've had to [00:01:45] be a, a host on The Franklin Planner Podcast, which is really based on the principles of, uh, Dr.
Stephen Covey, [00:01:50] who talked about first things first. So as you think of one of the biggest [00:01:55] challenges that you face today in your business, it's your attention, and we're living in a world where everyone has [00:02:00] immediate access to us because of texts and emails and social media and Slack and phone [00:02:05] calls and everything else, and, and people can reach us anytime, anywhere, and because of that, communication is [00:02:10] instantaneous, and we believe, or at least we started believing, that our responses need to be [00:02:15] instantaneous too.
So think about that for a minute. How long... You know, just because [00:02:20] somebody sends you an email doesn't mean you need to respond immediately. How long do you let it go before you answer [00:02:25] that Slack, that text, that message, the phone that rings? And just because somebody else has [00:02:30] problems doesn't automatically make it your highest priority.
Now, obviously, [00:02:35] there are legitimate emergencies, and there are deadlines, family responsibilities, customer, you know, [00:02:40] issues, things that you do have to handle, and, and as a CEO or founder, you're gonna have to do that more often than not. [00:02:45] But here's the question: How many things in your day are you [00:02:50] truly seeing as urgent, and how many simply feel urgent because somebody else [00:02:55] wants your attention and maybe they're right there in front of you, um, whether it's online or not?
Those are two [00:03:00] different things, and when we treat everything as urgent, we lose the ability to recognize what really [00:03:05] matters. I've fallen into this trap because I have so many priorities that at times [00:03:10] everything's a priority, which means nothing's a priority, and what happens is you lose [00:03:15] momentum. Every time we stop working on something important to respond to other interruptions, you, you have [00:03:20] to regain your focus.
You have to task switch, and sometimes the biggest cost, for you at least, [00:03:25] isn't the five minutes you spend answering a message. It's the time and mental energy it takes to get back [00:03:30] to what you were doing. So the first step is really important. You've got to understand and be aware [00:03:35] of what you're allowing to be urgent in your...
you know, from outside demands. [00:03:40] Then The second thing you've really gotta get under control is you have to develop a simple way [00:03:45] to decide what deserves your attention. You gotta c- you know, create a simple plan for [00:03:50] all of this competing demand on you. Now, I'm a big believer in planning, as you know, but I'm [00:03:55] also, um, you know, I also believe that planning systems should make your life easier, not more [00:04:00] complicated.
You don't need, you know, 17 different productivity apps or elaborate processes to [00:04:05] manage your day. You need a way to separate what's important from what's really taking your attention, and [00:04:10] one of the simplest approaches to do this is just to ask these two questions: Is it urgent? [00:04:15] Is it important? I know that sounds simple, but something that, [00:04:20] um, you know, that's both urgent and important probably needs your attention right now, [00:04:25] and something that's important but not urgent needs, needs a place in your [00:04:30] calendar before it, you know, becomes an emergency.
So when you find something though that, that, uh, is urgent but [00:04:35] not particularly important, it might be something you can delegate, postpone, or handle. This [00:04:40] is that four quadrants that Dr. Covey talks about, or even Hyrum Smith talks a lot about. [00:04:45] Um, you know, maybe it doesn't need to be done at all right now, and where you're living and which of those quadrants is [00:04:50] really gonna determine your productivity, your sa- satisfaction, and your fulfillment in life.[00:04:55]
So your most important work often doesn't come from urgent deadlines, right? It might be [00:05:00] something that's important and not urgent, like building relationships and taking care of your health and [00:05:05] planning your, um, you know, future, developing your skills, the things that really do [00:05:10] ultimately long-term drive the needle.
It's like spending quality time with your family. It may not seem urgent, but [00:05:15] it is the most important. So those things may not be screaming for your attention today, [00:05:20] but neglecting them long term and, and eventually it's gonna cause consequences. And that's why I believe you have [00:05:25] to schedule what's most important instead of waiting until you find time for it, [00:05:30] even the most important things in your life that aren't urgent.
Because if you wait until everything is urgent, you, you're just [00:05:35] never gonna get around to what matters most. So here's the biggest suggestion I have for you. At the end of the [00:05:40] day, or maybe even better, 'cause I do it both, at the beginning of your day, identify two [00:05:45] or three things that would make the biggest difference if you accomplish them.
Andy Frisella [00:05:50] talks about the power list. You know, not, not the easiest things, not necessarily the loudest things, but the things that are [00:05:55] the most meaningful, that will move the needle, that are the most important, even long term, and make [00:06:00] those the priorities that you can place your schedule around. Um, and so when you do this and you [00:06:05] sort of create this little system for determining what's gonna get your attention, then you'll [00:06:10] start to move the needle more and you can move to this la- this last step, which is you've got to take control of [00:06:15] interruptions instead of reacting to everything.
And so this is really important. You have to [00:06:20] stop allowing every interruption to make decisions for you. And I know that's easier said than done because you [00:06:25] probably are sitting here like I am with multiple screens and Slack and text and messages. [00:06:30] But especially if you're running a business and you're leading a team or managing a lot of responsibilities, [00:06:35] people do need access to you and-- because problems are gonna come up and plans will change.
That's part of [00:06:40] life. But being available doesn't mean you have to constantly be accessible [00:06:45] Does that, does that make sense? That's, there's a difference between availability and accessibility. Um, you [00:06:50] know, for example, instead of checking your email every five minutes, what if you checked it at a specific time of the [00:06:55] day and you don't leave it open on your screen?
Instead of allowing notifications to interrupt your work, what [00:07:00] if you turned off the notifications? That's what I do. And then you schedule time to go in and check. Instead [00:07:05] of letting meetings fill up every hour, what if you protected the time for what was most important for you and [00:07:10] scheduled around that?
These are just little adjustments, but they can completely change the way you [00:07:15] experience your day and your business. You-- But it's really important, you have to communicate these expectations. [00:07:20] If your team and clients don't have any clue or you've been doing it a certain way and you change it, that's gonna [00:07:25] cause problems.
But if you establish reasonable expectations around communications, [00:07:30] people will adapt. They will respect it. And, you know, when something's truly urgent, [00:07:35] you can create a way for people to get ahold of you even if you are, you know, blocking out your time. The [00:07:40] goal isn't to be unavailable. The goal is to become intentional about where you put your attention because [00:07:45] your attention is the most important thing that you could possibly have in your life and in your business.
It's [00:07:50] your most valuable asset. And so, you know, I want you to just really take a few [00:07:55] minutes today and this week and really do an audit of yourself and find out what is [00:08:00] it that you keep throwing into urgency. What can you do to really calendar, [00:08:05] schedule, delegate, or delete things that are taking your attention that are not as important, or more importantly, [00:08:10] book in those things that are important that you want to give attention to, and then find ways to [00:08:15] eliminate the distractions.
You know, here's the thing: Managing your time isn't about doing everything [00:08:20] faster and better. It's about deciding who deserves and what deserves your attention [00:08:25] and your time and refusing to let interruptions make that decision for you. Because you [00:08:30] can't control every demand that comes your way, but you can definitely become more intentional about how you respond to those [00:08:35] demands.
And over time, those decisions determine not just your productivity, but your quality of life. [00:08:40] Honestly, they, they, they create your identity because if you are somebody that is completely [00:08:45] reacting to all of the things around you, you are not proactively in charge of your life. You are going to be [00:08:50] stressed out.
You're gonna be overwhelmed You know, I've been working closely with Franklin Planner team [00:08:55] on the podcast, and I really believe in the value of having a system that helps you to [00:09:00] protect your daily actions and your goals. So, you know, go check out franklinplanner.com. There's, uh, so many [00:09:05] things there, but when you have systems and processes in place to help you structure what matters [00:09:10] most, you're gonna live a fulfilled life.
And remember, it's never too late to start living the life that you were meant to [00:09:15] live, but you have to put things in place to help you and assist you with that, especially if you have a lot of demands on your [00:09:20] time. So that's my message for today. I hope you have an amazing day. Um, we've got a great episode [00:09:25] tomorrow.
I'm gonna be, um, putting out some stuff. I've been interviewing some top, top New York [00:09:30] Times bestselling authors. Had a lot of requests to be on the podcast. Um, we've, we've done some [00:09:35] really great interviews on Franklin Planner. We're gonna be sharing some of those clips as well. So I encourage you to go check that [00:09:40] out, and then give me some feedback.
Let me know what you like. What, what is it you're struggling with? What are you winning at? [00:09:45] Um, I'd really love to help you out. You can go over to dailymastermind.com, check out all the free resources, [00:09:50] and, um, and do me a favor and share the show. That would help me a lot. Um, w- it would mean a lot to us [00:09:55] and, and I'm sure to anyone that can benefit from the content.
So anyway, have an amazing day. I'll talk with [00:10:00] you soon. Once again, this is George Wright III. This has been The Daily Mastermind.
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