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Episode 858 · Oct 2, 2023

7 Critical Questions to Find Direction in Your Life

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George Wright III opens this episode of The Daily Mastermind with a simple but challenging observation: most people drift through life letting outside forces, whether the news, their job, their relationships, or their environment, direct their thoughts for them. If you want a different life, you have to take control of what you think about. That starts with asking the right questions.

In this episode, George introduces a seven-question framework drawn from the life handbook of his late business partner and longtime mentor, Robert Stuburg. These questions are deceptively straightforward. But working through them honestly, and with enough depth and detail to make them actionable, is what separates people who grow into their potential from people who stay stuck.

Why Your Thoughts Determine Your Direction

George shares a core principle from Robert Stuburg's work: we grow into our expectations. And those expectations originate from your most common thoughts. With tens of thousands of thoughts cycling through your mind each day, the question is whether those thoughts are moving you toward your goals or pulling you off course.

If your thoughts are occupied with your boss's priorities, other people's agendas, or the constant noise of outside media, you are not directing your life. Someone else is. George's message is direct: be the one who is in control of your thoughts.

The Opening Question: What's on Your Mind?

The first question is the entry point into the whole process. What is on your mind right now? Not what you think you should be focused on, but what is actually occupying your mental space in this moment.

This sounds easy, but most people stop there. George pushes you to go deeper with the expansion question: what else is on your mind? That second layer often holds the thoughts you have been ignoring or avoiding, the ones that may actually matter most.

The Focusing and Target Questions

Once you have surfaced what is on your mind, the third question asks you to prioritize: what is the most important thing you could be thinking about right now? This is the focusing question, and it cuts through the noise by demanding that you rank what actually matters.

Question four is the target question: exactly what do you want? Not in vague terms, but specifically. What do you want your life to look like? George credits the precision of this question as essential, because vague wants produce vague results. You have to match your unique talents and abilities to the real opportunities in your life, and that requires knowing with clarity what you are aiming for.

Guidance, Action, and Growth

The fifth question shifts your focus outward: how can you obtain help in getting what you want? George notes that this is a question most people never think to ask. They try to figure everything out alone rather than leveraging resources, mentors, or communities already available to them.

Question six is the action question: what is the best thing you could be doing right now? Knowing what you want and even having a mentor is not enough. You have to convert that direction into focused action. This question closes the gap between intention and execution.

The seventh question is what George calls the growth question: what are you learning by examining your thoughts, and how can that learning help you level up? Growth is not just about doing more. It is about understanding what your thinking process reveals about where you are, and using that insight to move to the next level.

The devil is in the detail. After all, your thoughts do create your life.

Why Simple Questions Are Not Easy

George is clear that the simplicity of these seven questions does not make them easy. The value is not in reading the list. It is in sitting with each question long enough to produce the depth of thought, the strategies, and the specific tactics that make change real.

Your time is limited so don't waste it living someone else's life.

That Steve Jobs quote, shared by George at the top of the episode, applies to every one of these seven questions. If your thoughts are perpetually organized around other people's goals and other people's visions, you are spending your most valuable resource, your time and mental energy, on something that will never fully be yours.

Action Steps

  • Write down your answers to all seven questions in order, starting with "What is on my mind?" and pressing into each level before moving to the next.
  • After answering the expansion question ("What else is on my mind?"), identify the item on that list that you have been avoiding and examine why.
  • Use the target question ("Exactly what do I want?") to write a concrete, specific outcome, not a feeling or a general direction, but a result you can measure.
  • Audit your daily inputs: news, social media, conversations. Ask yourself whether each one is directing your thoughts toward your goals or away from them.
  • Pick one mentor, resource, or community that can help you get what you want, and reach out this week. That is the guidance question made actionable.

George closes the episode by planting a seed for the next session: pay attention to what your thoughts are right now, because that is where the work begins. It is never too late to start living the life you were meant to live.

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all right welcome back to the daily mastermind George Wright the third here with your daily dose of inspiration motivation and education just got done with a great workout tell you what man when you start your day right it definitely helps everything else get on track so you've got to do what you can in that morning to win the morning and you'll win the day got my workout in got a little reading from Alex Hermosi's book and I've got my protein drink so we're good to go let's get you guys a little bit of focus here this week that can help bring out that inspiration and motivation in you so I want to start you with a quote of the day I've got a great quote from Steve Jobs and it applies a little bit to what we're doing today but it's gonna apply to every area of your life and the quote is your time is limited so don't waste it living someone else's life. How many of you are wasting your life by living and basically accomplishing and working for someone else's dream? You know, at the end of the day, you can do what you need to do to earn a living, to make a life, but you've got to be also working on your own things. And so this week, at least for the next couple of days, I want to talk with you about a thought that's right out of the life handbook from my business partner, one of my longtime mentors, who's no longer with us, Robert Stuburg. And this thought is one that I think will really get you focused on what's most important. And here's the thought. We grow into our expectations. We grow into our expectations. But remember, your expectations originate from your most common thoughts. So what are you thinking about all the time? What are you thinking about all the time? Remember we have, you know, whatever the number has been, 50,000, 60,000 thoughts a day. And those thoughts are what determining your life The problem that most of us have is we have the same thoughts So what is it you thinking about Are your thoughts outside your comfort zone Are they taking you towards your goals Or have your thoughts or other distractions drifted you off course? Are you drifting throughout life? And so, you know, Robert had created these seven critical questions that I'll go back to every once in a while. And you can use these seven questions that I want to cover with you to help you keep focused, stay motivated, make sure you're moving in the right direction. He refined these questions over time. And I want to talk with you this week, today, tomorrow, maybe that actually depends on how much we get into, about these seven questions specifically. So as we start to do that, I want you to remember that we're all different. Everyone has different talents, abilities, etc. We all have different things that we bring to the table and we're all unique. but we all have various opportunities right now in our lives that we can leverage the power of our thoughts to capture our particular goals and dreams and you've got to match up and pair up these talents and abilities you have with the opportunities in your life so you know i want you to think about these seven questions but i want you to really make sure that the center of your thoughts are around the idea that there are power in your thoughts you've got to believe and harness the fact that there are power and creativity in your thoughts. More importantly, you have to learn to direct those thoughts to what you want rather than just drifting through life. If your thoughts are just drifting through life, if you're just doing the motions, if you're focused on other people's goals like your boss, your people you're with, or relationship, whatever it is, that's not going to take you where you want to be. Make sure that your thoughts are aligned. So I'm gonna walk you through these seven questions today, and then we'll dig into them real deep over the next couple of days. But I want you to use these episodes to really get clear on where your thoughts are taking you in your life. That's the goal here. Let's dig into what you want, why you want it, what you need to do to get there Because if you not directing your thoughts make no mistake your thoughts are being directed for you Because if you watching news or anything around you your environment your job your relationships everything's directing your thoughts one way or another. So be the one who's in control of your thoughts, that's directing your thoughts. So here are seven critical questions. And don't let, I'm going to qualify this for you. don't let the simplicity of these questions fool you into thinking that there isn't significant strategy that needs to be put into each of these because you've got to drive deep. It's not just your thoughts. It's the quality of your thoughts. Okay. So let's go through these questions. The first question is kind of an opening question. What's on your mind? What's on your mind right now? What is it that you're thinking about? And we're going to get into these a little deeper over the next couple of days but what is on your mind then I want you to ask the expansion question which is what else is on your mind see most people don't go to that second level and deeper thought of what else is on your mind not just what's on your mind most of the time but what else is back there that's maybe even more important that you're not prioritizing what else is on your mind then you're gonna drive into the focusing question and the focusing question is what's the most important thing you could be thinking about right now so not just what's on your mind or what else is on your mind what else is in there but what's the most important thing you should be or could be thinking about right now then we're gonna drive into the target question which is exactly what do you want what do you want what do you want in your life what want your life to be like? And then number five is going to be the guidance question. How can you obtain help in getting what you want? See, that's a question a lot of us don't think about and we don't try to do. How can you get help getting what you want? And then we're going to come to the action question What the best thing you could be doing right now What the thing you could be doing right now A lot of people know what they want and they kind of getting a direction They maybe even have a mentor but they not focusing their time into action What the best thing you could be doing right now And then we talk about the growth question. This is the one that I really love, and that is what are you learning by examining your thoughts and how can it help you grow so that you can level up? So we're talking about what's on your mind and what else is on your mind and what's the most important thing you could be doing and exactly what do you want and how can I or anyone or you know how can you obtain resources to help you get it and then what's the best thing to do right now and what are you learning from this process that can take you to the next level. Now listen, I know this sounds simple but it's not easy because I know most people don't do it. So don't be fooled. The key is guiding yourself through this process and getting direction and detail that's actionable. Strategies and tips and tactics. The devil is in the detail. After all, your thoughts do create your life. And so you've got to really, the big objective I want you to think about today is, are your thoughts helping you or are they hurting you? Are they focusing you or are they distracting you? I mean, if you're listening to this podcast, it's because you know you want to make a change, but are you doing everything you need to make a change? So we're going to talk about that tomorrow and we're going to talk about the next day. But I plant this seed, a little bit of an open-ended question for you. What are your thoughts right now and what are you thinking about so we can dig deep into them over the next couple of days? That's my message for today. I hope that will open up your mind to get really focused on what's important this week. And I look forward to talking with you tomorrow. Do me a favor. If you would, share this episode. Let's share it with at least one person and tag me at The Daily Mastermind on Facebook, Instagram, LinkedIn, because I want to know what you're doing. I want to know what's going on. I want to be able to help you with what you're working on. And I look forward to talking with you more tomorrow. Once again, this is George Wright III, and this has been The Daily Mastermind.